Being 20 Sumthin’ – A tagged note

One of my good Japinoy friends tagged me a note from Facebook and after reading it, I immediately had the urge of posting it here in my blog. Thanks Tim!! n__n

Being 20 Sumthin’

They call it the “Quarter-life Crisis.” It is when you
stop going along with the crowd and start realizing
that there are many things about yourself that you
didn’t know and may not like.

You start feeling insecure and wonder where you
will be in a year or two, but then get scared
because you barely know where you are now. You
start realizing that people are selfish and that,
maybe, those friends that you thought you were so
close to aren’t exactly the greatest people you
have ever met, and the people you have lost touch
with are some of the most important ones.

What you don’t recognize is that they are realizing
that too, and aren’t really cold, catty, mean or
insincere, but that they are as confused as you.
You look at your job… and it is not even close to
what you thought you would be doing, or maybe
you are looking for a job and realizing that you are
going to have to start at the bottom and that
scares you.

Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what
others are doing and find yourself judging more
than usual because suddenly you realize that you
have certain boundaries in your life and are
constantly adding things to your list of what is
acceptable and what isn’t. One minute, you are
insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and
cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel
alone and scared and confused.

Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and
cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize
that the past is drifting further and further away,
and there is nothing to do but stay where you are
or move forward.

You get your heart broken and wonder how
someone you loved could do such damage to you.
Or you lie in bed and wonder why you can’t meet
anyone decent enough that you want to get to
know better. Or maybe you love someone but love
someone else too and cannot figure out why you
are doing this because you know that you aren’t a
bad person.

One night stands and random hook ups start to
look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an
idiot starts to look pathetic. You go through the
same emotions and questions over and over, and
talk with your friends about the same topics
because you cannot seem to make a decision.

You worry about loans, money, the future and
making a life for yourself… and while winning the
race would be great, right now you’d just like to be
a contender!

What you may not realize is that everyone reading
this relates to it. We are in our best of times and
our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to
figure this whole thing out.

You’re not alone in your state of confusion, dude…


Booyah!! xD

    • catchan1980
    • February 10th, 2010

    You go through the
    same emotions and questions over and over, and
    talk with your friends about the same topics
    because you cannot seem to make a decision. >> Sounds family?? Ahahahaha! 😀

    • Ay. Hahaha! Oo nga ano? Pero teka, di ba Mid-Life crisis na yung kanya? Hahaha! Kaya umiinit ulo ni Fei eh. xD

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